if you had to choose one of the three to participate in: drugs (including smoking and drinking), promiscuous sexual activity, or self injury, which would you choose and why?
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I would pick self injury, because a) i've already done it, and b) it's least likely to have horrible long term-effects for me. That may be different for others, but for me, it's true.
Exactly the same for me.
yep same here.
same here as well
Depends on the drugs, but I would have to go for that one. I like drugs and I've already been promiscuous enough before I was married, and I already deal with self injury.
I think right now I would choose to do drugs. I've never wanted to be heavily sexual active and I've already gone through the whole cutting thing. none of the options sound all that good either way
i'd choose self-injury.
i've already been there, done that.
i'm deathly afraid of any kind of physical contact, let alone intimacy.
all because of some assholes who sexually abused me.
and drugs scare me because of how they influenced my family.
therefore, self-injury would be the only logical choice [for me].
I'd take the sex, so long as I got to choose whoever it was with.
self-injury, because i already do it.
definately SI...mainly because ive done it now for almost 20 yrs... as for the promiscuity... been there and done it as well when i was a teenager... didnt do much for me and i always regretted it.. at least with SI im in control...
drugs. hands down
Promiscuous sexual activity. Only because it's an image I've created for myself.
it's hard to choose any of them. i'm abstinent from self injury and from drugs/alcohol because they've fucked me up too much in the past. i'm even in narcotics anonymous. and i'm a virgin, which would make the sexual activity one awkward... but if i could be permiscuous with my own sex only, i guess it would be fine. at least there's a somewhat lower risk of contracting stds than if i had intercourse. i think...
sex.Former addict (6 and half years) with no interest to go back there.As for SI, I'm transitioning (from female to male) so I'm trying to be nice to my body. It's enduring surgeries, a 2nd puberty and menopause. I figure it could benefit from more sexual pleasure than I've had in the last year and a half.
im an FTM as well. Woot. Guy unite. :P
DRUGS, definitely. especially if they were free.
well good sex should involve drugs, alcohol and injury anyway, and I can't pick all 3 sooo....SEX
Funny (not funny haha) that nearly everyone that answered has or still does self harm . . . Right well if i had to choose one it would be drugs because i love to drink and i love to smoke, even though i shouldn't and try not to.I wouldn't sleep around as i have a wonderful partner whom i love very much and the self harm route (yes me too) has fucked me up already. I don't do it anymore and stopped over a year ago but have worn long sleeves for the past 5 years of my life and possibly many more to come so it's really not worth it.